how to send text message or phone call just like the eclipse emulator does

I'm making a program that is based on sending many notifications to the phone. I have come across a problem with making the phone act like its an actual call or message anyone know any other way to achieve this?

I need the text message/call to come from the program but when it appears on the phone to act like it's a real sms message/call. Like the emulator Control does in Eclipse.

I have tried Telephonymanager over and over and the closest I have come is trying to fake it with a notification Manager.

ok so Let me explain this better I need to make an activity where my program sends a real text message and phone call to the phone. any ideas? (Like someone else is sending 开发者_开发技巧it to the phone)