How can I play video on my website

I want to play video in my website, the video are located on server. I want to play video and I want to handle that dynamically. I can set from control panel which video will be played. I have tried using youtubevideo control or video control or other but unable to get success. Please suggest me player which can play all type of format and with no tooltip on it

<object data="images/player_flv_maxi.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="342" height="234" hspace="1" vspace="0" align="middle" id="Object1">
                        开发者_JAVA技巧            <param name="movie" value="images/player_flv_maxi.swf" />
                                    <param name="wmode" value="opaque" />
                                    <param name="allowFullScreen" value="false" />
                                    <param name="allowScriptAccess" value="sameDomain" />
                                    <param name="quality" value="high" />
                                    <param name="menu" value="true" />
                                    <param name="autoplay" value="true" />
                                    <param name="autoload" value="true" />
                                    <param name="FlashVars" value="flv=20051210-w50s_56K.flv&amp;width=345&amp;height=234&amp;autoplay=1&amp;autoload=1&amp;buffer=5&amp;buffermessage=&amp;playercolor=464646&amp;loadingcolor=999898&amp;buttoncolor=ffffff&amp;buttonovercolor=dddcdc&amp;slidercolor=ffffff&amp;sliderovercolor=dddcdc&amp;showvolume=1&amp;showfullscreen=1&amp;playeralpha=100&amp;title=59067126&amp;margin=0&amp;buffershowbg=0" />
                                    <embed src="images/player_flv_maxi.swf" width="342" height="234" hspace="1" vspace="0" align="middle" wmode="opaque" allowfullscreen="false" allowscriptaccess="sameDomain" quality="high" menu="true" autoplay="true" autoload="true" flashvars="flv=20051210-w50s_56K.flv&amp;width=345&amp;height=234&amp;autoplay=1&amp;autoload=1&amp;buffer=5&amp;buffermessage=&amp;playercolor=464646&amp;loadingcolor=999898&amp;buttoncolor=ffffff&amp;buttonovercolor=dddcdc&amp;slidercolor=ffffff&amp;sliderovercolor=dddcdc&amp;showvolume=1&amp;showfullscreen=1&amp;playeralpha=100&amp;title=59067126&amp;margin=0&amp;buffershowbg=0" movie="images/player_flv_maxi.swf"></embed>
                                  </object>

Friends I m using this code but this is not working at all can anyone tell me whats the problem

1. solution: Use HTML5 <video> tag. You can control it with javascript. The downside is that this solution is not widely supported.

2. solution: Use youtube and their API. It is hard to get done propperly, but once you do, it works nice. It is hosted elsewhere and don't use your server bandwith.

3. solution: Use JWplayer. Google it. It also provides Javascipt API, but you must host videos on your own server (unlike youtube), using own bandwith and you have to convert them to .flv before use.

If I were you, I'd go with 3. solution. But it is up to you.

Have a look at the Strobe media player. It is based on the OSMF (Open Source Media Framework).

On the server side you can use Red5, if you want to add streaming capabilities.

I think FlowPlayer from http://flowplayer.org/ is a brilliant solution.