Posting to user's facebook news feed without posting to his wall

I'm tring to send customized news to my users via Facebook.

I'开发者_StackOverflowve tried posting private posts to their walls, so they show up on their news feed, but people got upset by the new posts on their wall (even though noone else can see them) Is there a way to do this?

I considered building a page per user and suggest to the user to follow it - can this be done via API? Can a user follow updates on just any page (non fan page) that he Liked, or that has a FB comments box?

Alternatively, can I programatically send Facebook notifications?

You can try creating a single Page for your app. Then when a user connects with your app, auto-follow that page so that all posts to that page show up in the user's feed.

Now just add new posts to that Page with privacy settings targetted at just that user.

Thats my off the cuff answer.